English — say vs tell
Both verbs report speech, but the grammar differs. You say something (to someone), while you tell someone something. Getting the object pattern right is the key.
How it works
Tell takes a personal object directly: I told her the truth, tell me your name. Say does not take a personal object — you add to: I said goodbye to her, say hello to John. So say something to somebody, but tell somebody something.
Examples
| Example | Pattern / use |
|---|---|
| She said nothing. | say + something (no person) |
| Say hello to your mother. | say + something + to + person |
| Tell me the truth. | tell + person + something |
| He told us a story. | tell + person + something |
| Don't tell a lie. | fixed phrase with tell |
| Can you tell the time? | fixed phrase with tell |
| Tell me about your trip. | tell + person + about + topic |
Good to know
A common mistake is to put a person straight after say: not say me the answer but tell me the answer, or say the answer to me. Note the fixed phrases keep tell: tell a lie, tell the truth, tell the time, tell a story, tell a joke — never say a lie.